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GIVE IMPULSIVENESS A SECOND CHANCE

I am sure you are wondering what this is all about but you got to keep an open mind while you read because this is an unpopular opinion.

For a start, let me define impulsiveness. It involves doing things or tending to do things suddenly and without careful thought.

I could go on and on listing the damages that impulsive behaviours could bring to a person's life but if we are kind enough to give impulsiveness a second chance, we would see that it could be helpful at times and that it does not always result in regrets.

Therefore, we would examine impulsiveness which is in close relationship with spontaneity or taking decisions in the heat of the moment without thinking it through.

Over thinkers are most likely the ones who reap rewards from the risk of impulsiveness. If you have not found a way yet out of over thinking and you always seem to get in your head while evaluating and reevaluating situations, you should risk being impulsive at some moments.

An over thinker is likely not to post beautiful pictures of themselves again after the excitement of taking them and going through their gallery to carefully select the most beautiful ones. They'll always come up with an excuse after they're done with their careful thinking and evaluation.








Likewise, there are also over thinkers who remain in unhealthy relationships because every time they wanted to leave, they get in their own head while thinking it through and make up a thousand and ten reasons to stay.

Do you also know that a person with a low self esteem or who have a hard time believing themselves can think through a golden opportunity until they see reasons to not grab the opportunity? But if a person like this takes up that opportunity in the heat of the moment, they'll likely overcome their fears and reap rewards at the end.

Of course, impulsiveness is not always the answer but seeing that it also has a beautiful side for certain people at some points, we should all give it a second chance. It does not always hurt.

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  1. chioma chukwutaraFebruary 10, 2022 at 6:48 AM

    This is a fact that needs to be considered. Thank dear

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    1. FavourchimamakaFebruary 11, 2022 at 1:33 AM

      Yes, I also think that it should be considered and thanks for reading.

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