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The Full Story

As you relate with people on daily basis, be rest assured you that not many stories will end the way you want it to. It is not in your place to end stories that are not yours no matter how similar it sounds.

 Your ability to recognize that stories may sound similar but have different endings will save you from the stress of always running to conclusion or living a life of regret after every quick judgement.

So it is the same teenage pregnancy but could have happened under different circumstances.

Same childlessness, but chances are that it is not a product of "university days wayward life."

Same exam failure but not exactly a product of non diligence.

 Before you make judgements, get to know the full story. 

Your kindness extends to being patient to hear the full story (where it began and where it ended) without making inputs or running to conclusion because you think you know how these stories always end.

Resist the urge to end stories that are not yours.

At the end of the story, who knows, silence may even be your most preferred option?


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  1. UgoezeFebruary 10, 2022 at 8:05 AM

    I got value and I'm ready to put it into practice. Actually think a lot of people need to hear more of this.

    Thanks for dishing this out, mama.

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    1. FavourchimamakaFebruary 11, 2022 at 1:32 AM

      I'm really glad that you got value from this and truly, we should spread this message round.

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  2. Graciie ImooFebruary 10, 2022 at 8:17 AM

    ❤️❤️❤️

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