REGRET

 It is always something you should not have said or done that damages your relationship with someone you care about or not. And it is in this manner that I want to talk about regret. Not the one that is a result of things beyond your control but the ones which you could have controlled but overlooked.

Nothing makes you feel like shit the way this kind of regret does. 

My friend once told me that regret is the worst emotion and I completely agree. Because how does something make you dwell on it and not move forward because you're thinking a thousand things you should have done better and rarely presents you with an opportunity to rewind time in order for you to do better?

Usually, the problem here is not really whether you are sorry or not but that the deed has been done and there is no going back. This kind of regret just says, "It is what it is" and expects you to accept it even if it makes you cry every night.

This type of regret gets even worse in the matter of death. 

Here, the universe offers you no chance to make amends except even in reincarnation (that is if you think reincarnation to be a real thing) because no two persons are the same.

It was in a book that I first saw this statement, "Don't let anyone in your life die without forgiving you" or you forgiving them and I can't tell how much of a good advice this is because if you ever let it happen, you may not survive the heart pain that would follow afterwards.

Regret never serves a fair deal or maybe it's actually fair this time since you made the choice, right? You may want to think through the choices you make daily especially in your relationship with others.  

Regrets which come as a result of your bad choices will likely stare you in the face all your life and struggle your pajamas with you every night.

Do watch out for that guy! Because you need good sleep everyday and consistent sighing increases the size of your lips( Ask google if you doubt me).